$('ul li:first-child').hide();
$("#showBtn").click(function(){
$('ul li:first-child').show();
});
$("#hideBtn").click(function(){
$('ul li:first-child').hide();
});
<h1>heading</h1>
<p>paragraph</p>
<p>paragraph 2</p>
<ul>
<li>a1</li>
<li>a2</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>b1</li>
<li>b2</li>
</ul>
<button id="showBtn">显示</button>
<button id="hideBtn">隐藏</button>
p{color:red;}